Hello beautiful Souls. My message today is about our saturation point, letting go of neediness .
When we are feeling overwhelmed and exhausted? If we feel that everything is getting harder to deal with? That we feel the life is sucked out of us and we can't make good decisions? This alerts us l, it's a signal to begin to make changes in our lives.
As we move on through life and especially in these changing times we have been led to believe that we are suppose to be keeping everything together for everyone.
When we are actively pleasing everyone and doing our utmost to make them happy, it almost gives us a sense of feeling safe. All this does is remove us from our own desires and what we deserve to be.
When we only put other's before us, we don't spend time refectively looking at our own saturation point. We often allow and permit others to push us way past our limits. Burnout and anxiety are the result.
Suddenly we find ourselves in a space of disappointments, depression, anxiety, not coping or feeling resentful... even going through trauma.
In order to get ourselves back to a reasonable space/place we have start to realise that maybe it's not our job or responsibility to take on the burdens of others and make others happy all the time.
We are not meant to be fixers, people pleasers and changers for others. We have to learn that we don't walk away in order to only teach others. We need to walk away to save ourselves.
We have to finally realise we have learned the lesson that WE required to heal and thrive ourselves.
May we make space and create healthy boundaries for our own changes. We have to learn to walk away and form a new identity for our own needs and feed our own well being. This may not be physically walking away. It can also be taking leave of mental responsibility when its not ours to adopt. What's holding us back from this kind of freedom? Does this freedom become a lonely place or a wonderful release?
The neediness needs to dimish in order to walk away. We have to focus on ourselves to build our authentic self. It is not selfish to do what serves us best. Enabling others does not allow for self empowerment.
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