Hello beautiful Souls. Today my message is about "healing the wound."
Sometimes when we are in a space where we come to the realization of difficult relationships or disagreements that we imagine can't be resolved. We DO know of course that this is COUPLED with avoidance or disengagement. This ignites emotional turmoil and feelings of possible, anger, pain, sadness, hurt or disappointment. We can tend to develop a need to keep "picking at the wound." We want answers and validation. Maybe even accountability of blame.
We can tend to be reactive and bit like "a dog with a bone." Although we do need time to be heard and time to process our emotions regarding these troubled times, it does not serve us or the other party to keep going on and on about what it truly not going to change. We got to understand it obvious that only we can change.
If it's just not working, no plaster will be waterproof for ever. Once the adhesive strip doesn't stick anymore the plaster will fall off. Maybe the plaster is only a tempory solution. Maybe the plaster is also no longer needed.
If you keep picking at the wound it will bleed. Thus, the wound reopens and may even become septic and toxic.
Most wounds heal with the correct clean environment and good treatment. The rest of the healing process is done by leaving it be, to heal the body and mind in a gentle, respectful understanding of acceptance.
Sometimes this IS the authentic reality and answer you just don't want to accept.
There is the opportunity to heal the wound, when we decide nothing is going to change and everyone has to have a fair share in taking both ownership and responsibility, good communication and honesty in order to heal the wounds.
Healing wounds does not mean you may get the outcomes you thought you wanted. It could just be amicable solutions to what serves everyone best without harping on the past. Moving forwards and onwards. In our stillness, we find where creatively and resources are found within.
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